It is so important that you know what it is that you want. Otherwise, what difference would it make for you to do anything at all without first having a desire?
I often speak with people who want change in their lives, while at the same time not being as clear on what it is they want different from what they already have. This is a problem, because if you don’t know what you’re looking for, anything you get should suffice.
Dissatisfaction comes from a place. When you’re unhappy with who you are, with what you have, or even with where you are in life, in order for anything different to show up for you, you must first be purposeful on what that thing is. So, what are you looking for? At the end of the day, what do you want to be different?
So, before doing anything else, get clear on what you want first.
It makes NO sense at all to keep doing things without having a reason for doing it. When you set out to do something, it’s because you’re aiming for a specific end goal. Get clear on what you want that to be first before making another move and watch how things change for you.
What you want, wants you just as bad as you want it. But you gotta be clear on what it is. Stop doing things without having an aim you’re shooting for. At least understand your why for doing something, and if it doesn’t turn out the way you wanted it to, then start the process over again. There’s got to be something for you to learn from it, rather than looking at it as failure. How else would you learn without some kind of opposition? Don’t let that stop you. Keep it moving!
If you haven’t tried something new and different in a while, then set your mind on what you think you might want for yourself. Walk through the process of deciding on what that is.
Set a goal. An aim. Something to shoot for. Something you desire. Now, with this clarity of your what, start making some forward movement to achieve this thing. Why? Because it’s something you know you want for yourself. You deserve it, and I’m rooting for you to get clear on what you really want!