Each of us want to experience relationship success. We want to have that space with that special someone where we give love and at the same time feel loved. But where does it begin? It begins with you and how you see yourself!
Relationship success begins with personal success.
That means when you can love who you are and feel good about who you are, you can share your life and space with someone else who will more than likely feel and treat you the same.
As the saying goes, we teach people how to treat us. So, if you love you, you won’t allow anyone else to mistreat you; nor will you them. You can’t expect someone else to be and do for you what you aren’t willing to be and do for yourself. This is where relationship success begins.
If you want someone to treat you special, begin by treating your own self special. Show others how you want to be treated, cared for and loved. You should know better what your needs are than anyone else. That’s how you’re able to teach and show it to others.
When you are able to show and tell what you want and expect, you know it’s possible because you’ve shown and proven it can be done first. That’s why it’s so unfair to look for and expect for a knight in shining armor to show up for you when you have not been showing up for your own self as such.
The knight is looking for the woman who represents being worthy of rescuing. Is that you? Sure, you want your knight to show up, but are you even ready for him?
This is where it all starts. With you. Begin preparing for what you want to show up in your life. You’ve heard the saying, when the student is ready, the teacher appears, right? Well, when the teacher is ready, the student also shows up.
That’s what will happen for you when you prepare yourself for what you deeply desire. Start working on that. If you don’t know where to start, reach out and connect. I would be more than happy to help you begin putting the pieces together to create what you desire.
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